After The Death Of Your Husband...
Finally, Discover What Widows Wish They Knew About Grieving!
Secrets No One Bothers To Tell Them
"The Grief Journey You Didn't Choose"
It is one of the most devastating experiences you will ever experience.
You need to know that navigating through your grief is a journey that doesn't have an obvious destination.
I'm genuinely sorry that you lost your husband.
And I know you have already discovered that grief is a complex and deeply personal experience.
Another thing you will discover is that grief from your loss is incredibly challenging to understand and that grieving is necessary if you want to get on with a healthy life.
You are probably wondering if you will ever be happy again. Yes, you will!
Unfortunately, your life won't return to normal, but you will create a new normal.
Welcome to Grieving Widows Matter
This is a space created just for you—a place where your grief is understood, your memories are cherished, and your journey toward healing is honored.
We know that losing your husband can feel like losing a part of your soul. The grief can be overwhelming, leaving you feeling isolated and unsure of how to move forward.
But here, you’re not alone.
Our purpose is to walk beside you on this difficult journey, offering comfort, understanding, and the support you need to heal.
We believe that your pain matters, and so does your healing.
That’s why we are creating this space just for you—a place where your heart is heard and your grief is honored.
As you explore our resources, connect with others, and read stories from women who’ve walked a similar path, we hope you find the strength to embrace your grief and move forward at your own pace.
You’ve taken a brave step by being here, and we’re here to support you every step of the way.
Reasons Why the grief
process is complicated
"Weight of Unbearable
Emotions"
When Grief Overwhelms
Grief unleashes torrents of intense emotions—profound sadness, raw anger, confusion, and crushing loneliness—that feel impossible to bear.
These powerful feelings arrive without warning, creating emotional storms that threaten daily existence.
Our natural instinct to avoid pain becomes a barrier to healthy grieving, as confronting such intensity requires tremendous courage and energy.
"When God Feels Silent"
Faith Crisis in the Depths of Grief
Grief penetrates our deepest spiritual corners, triggering questions about God's justic and divine love.
Wrestling with anger toward God becomes natural when devastating loss strikes.
Many wonder how a compassionate Creator allows such pain, creating theological confusion that challenges core beliefs about divine goodness.
These spiritual struggles represent normal grief responses, not faith failures.
"Just Get Over It"
How Society Rushes the
Grieving Process
Well-meaning people often push grieving individuals toward quick recovery, creating harmful healing timelines.
These external pressures distort understanding of normal grief, making you question whether emotions are appropriate or lasting too long.
Suppressed grief doesn't disappear—it festers beneath the surface, ultimately prolonging healing.
Authentic grief requires your own pace, not society's uncomfortable expectations.
Navigate Your Grief Journey
With An Easy To Follow Process
Most widows don't know where to begin
as they navigate through their grief.
We have a wealth of helpful, encouraging, and comforting information for grieving widows to help discover happiness again..
Grief is deeply personal and unpredictable.
Each day brings overwhelming emotions that can feel confusing and isolating. While your pain may never completely disappear, its intensity will gradually lessen.
You don't have to face this alone. Together, we'll explore a future that, though different from your past, holds new hope and unexpected happiness.
Your life won't return to its former state, but you'll discover a new normal uniquely yours.
- Give yourself permission to grieve.
- Seek support from friends, family, or professionals.
- Here you'll find manageable steps that ease emotional processing and illuminate your path forward.
Healing is a journey filled with promise, achieved through small, meaningful increments that build strength and clarity.
You deserve to experience life again.
How do you know what to try as
you navigate through your grief Journey?
“Grief is like a long valley, a winding valley where any bend may reveal a totally new landscape.”
From "A Grief Observed"
C S Lewis
Many of the ideas I present here are based on biblical principles.
I don’t know if you you practice any particular faith, don't believe in God, or feel distant from God, it doesn't matter, the information you find here can still help you.
Our website is filled with practical information that will encourage you as you grieve, regardless of your perspective on God or faith.
Testimonials from Howard's Grief Support Groups
“I am amazed to find support in the company of others who understand my struggles. It’s a safe place where sharing is met with understanding, not judgment.” Robin | ||
“This support group literally saved my life.” Dana
“I once believed I was alone in grappling with my roller coaster emotions and thoughts.
Hearing from others, and being able to voice my thoughts and struggles, proved to be an immensely uplifting experience.” Garah
“We bereaved are not alone.
We belong to the largest company in all the world –
the company of those who have known suffering.”
From the book, "We Bereaved"Helen Keller